is this considered being abusive or controlling?

so my boyfriend, anytime we get on the phone after he's done working we have like a normal convo and everything but then something I do tips him off and he gets mad. so like tonight I was talking about some depressing things that's happened to me before and after I was done tellin him about it his response was "imma go get food and call you later" so I was pissed and hung up. he started blowing up my phone and I kept declining it. then he texted me saying wtf and I said what he was asking wtf my problem was and I told him he completely disregarded what I had told him then he's like "wtf I didn't hang up... and clearly I was listening and I don't got time for your stupid ass attitude so you better call me back and get your shit straight" so I called him back and he immediately started yelling at me. talkin bout "that was so disrespectful" "why tf would you do that" " you need to start acting right, if you don't you're really gonna piss me off" I was like I'm not fucking doing anything he started yellin at me not to cry. he telling me what I shouldn't do and how to act throughout the whole convo. like should I even be with him? it's not the first time either. he flips over everything I do. it seems like I don't ever "act right" 💔