Don’t know what to do...

Recently, I got back with my baby’s father after 5 years. We are very happy with the decision. But recently it’s been rocky. For 7 years even when I was pregnant we’ve lived in separate homes, and I raised my child. He would pick him up twice a week for some House and every other weekend. But never knew how it actually was to raise a child 24/7. He did helped financially and was there during the time we weren’t together. This whole time I couldn’t work due to not having anyone to take care of our son, and someone that would be able to take or pick up from school. I did everything, and during the time I would do freelance work to make income.

Now my child is going to school full time and I have someone available to pick him up from school. I recently got a job, with the hours that my son goes to school.

We’re always arguing about him helping me and understanding me how hard it is to be a full time mom and full time employee and full time GF?. I have to do everything by myself because he gets to go home and just worry about himself when I simply can’t have the luxury.

He keeps repeating that I’m bringing up the past and he simply can’t deal with it anymore.

But I’m talking about the present the right now.

This was one of the reasons we broke up in the first place.

Idk if I’m wrong for asking for help and asking him to put himself in my shoes. I have a little human that relies on me 24/7.

He takes it negatively when I bring up the situation. He says I don’t look at the good he’s doing. But I’m just I’m just asking him to help me. He’s a good dad. But he needs to step it up as a partner. Idk if I should pursue this relationship or it’s time to officially let go.

I’m probably all over the place but I just need to vent .