If your fiancé gave you Gonorrhea, would you give the ring back?

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Provided, I have a $15,000 medical bill. I want to sells the ring.

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Sell that bitch and sue his ass! He violated you. If you can prove that he knowingly had sex with you with that knowledge. Oh man you can get all medical bills paid, lawyers paid, pain and suffering, time lost of work for appointments or if sick from medication. Plus if that’s one you CANT get rid of he’s changed your body for life. There could be complications down the road all the way from fertility to death.

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FUCK. NO. I’m paying my medical bill and anything extra I’m spoiling myself.

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It was a gift. He gave it to you. It's yours. You can do whatever you want with it . Get your money sis !

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In almost all the US it is illegal to NOT give the ring back if you don't get married. Plus you're missing a lot from your story, why on earth are you medical bills so high for an std as common as that? Should be like 10% of that. Also did he know he had an STD or was he hiding it?

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It depends if he didn’t know he had it or if he got it by cheating

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So Bc I’m getting so many questions, I’ll share my story.. I’ve been with him for 3 years and we have a 6 month old together & we before I was pregnant we had sex all the time. When we found out we were expecting, he didn’t want to have sex anymore (bc it was weird for him). We didn’t have sex at all during my pregnancy. After I had my daughter I got an IUD and we finally started having sex again 8 weeks postpartum... them about 2 months ago I was have awful body aches and pelvic pain. Went to the hospital twice Bc I didn’t know what was going on... the first time I was diagnosed with Rhabdo because I was working out daily (trying to get my body back) ... a few weeks later when I finally went back to work I had to go to the hospital again for awful hip and back pain.. not to mention I was having awful cramps and weird discharge at this point. I thought it was bc of my iud.. come to find out I had a mass the size of an orange in my left Fallopian tube. So my bill was $15,000+ Bc I had to stay in the hospital for 3 days getting pumped with antibiotics and pain medicine... not to mention I don’t have any insurance since I just started a new job. After I got out of the hospital I tried to convince myself that there was away he had it and didn’t know for 3 YEARS... not fucking possible. Also, this could have effected our baby... I don’t think he knew he had it but I know he must have cheated because I would have had this STD a long time ago..

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Karma is a bitch and she WILL get him! Seriously hope you’re around to see it!

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Still selling that shit 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 AND IVE GOT THE BAND AND HIS RING 👌🏽 so I’m just going to put that towards a new place for myself and my daughter! He admitted to taking X and cheated a few weeks before I had my daughter... so fuck him.

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Personally, I would return the ring to be completely done with the situation. Selling the ring, paying off medical bills isn't going to numb or release my pain/hurt. Returning the ring to it's owner shows that I am letting go of the vision of a happily ever after with him. It's closure versus putting a petty flimsy bandaid on a gaping wound. Karma to me is moving on & finding happiness with someone else. Selling a ring only proves that I am upset & make decisions while emotional.

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Well he finally admitted that he cheated.. thanks ladies

If your fiancé gave you Gonorrhea, would you give the ring back?

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