May be a little TMI

Okay guys, i need advice. So my boyfriend told me he is tired of doing the same ole positions we do when we have sex. So he asked if I would feel comfortable with playing with myself because he gets so turned on. He also wants me to play with myself while giving him head. Like is that weird? Has anyone done/do it? I’m kind of nervous to do it. He also wants to watch porn together and really get into it, but I’m not sure what porn is suitable for a couple. And he also wants us to get some toys but I don’t even know what kind of toys! I need a ton of help here!