I need help “Coming” during sex! 😬😩

Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend I have never “came” like I do when I’m going solo and I don’t finger anymore because I don’t really feel anything unless it’s clitoris stimulation, tmi?

So obviously it’s a little hard for me to get off. He doesn’t go down on me (because I don’t feel

comfortable) but when he does, I don’t feel anything when he gets to the clit.

We are each other’s first so we don’t have much experience but we have been “together” for a year and a half and I’m still having trouble getting off.

What do you suggest me and/or my boyfriend try?