Boy advice?!! Please help!

So a couple of months ago, I matched with a guy on Tinder. We talked for a bit, we didn't really talk much and then we stopped. I deleted my Tinder as I didn't really use it anymore... Fast forward to two weeks ago, I matched with the same guy and we really hit it off, everything was perfect. We exchanged our college schedules through Snapchat so we could meet and all. We added each other on Facebook, IG, etc. We used to snap each other every day and he would always answer, never leaving me on seen. A few days after, he invited me over to his house to watch a movie while we were both on a long break at school (he lives nearby). We started watching a movie, cuddling, holding hands. I started to kiss him and soon, we were having sex. Sex was great. The next day, we saw each other at a coffee shop so I could help with his Spanish oral. We didn't kiss or anything. And that night, he asked to see me the next day again so we could practice his Spanish oral again. We somehow started talking about losing our virginities a day after and I said "oh I had my first kiss not long ago, I'm still really bad, learning though" and he agreed saying something along the lines of "yeah". I apologized for what happened and then he then said "I would've preferred we stayed friends!!!" so I asked if I had just been friend zoned and he said "well maybe, you're in the good friend zone, you're not in the shitty friend zone, you're super chill"... After I helped him on Friday, we both had a week off and I told him if he wanted to do something to just text me and he never really did. We snapped each other everyday just to keep our snap streaks but now every time I send him a snap, he just opens it and doesn't really talk to me anymore... He unmatched me from Tinder and unfollowed me from my spam account on Insta where I kinda just post whatever, which he thought was "really funny". I really like this guy, I feel like I scared him off by having had sex with him the first time we saw each other... I don't know what to do... please help!! I don't want to lose him as a friend, which I am because he doesn't even talk to me anymore like we used to...

Edit: He's really not a fuckboy. We talked about it and I told him I felt so bad for initiating sex and for what had happened. And he said that he also felt disgusted for what he had done. The thing is, I would feel less bad if he just wanted to be fuck buddies but not even that... I've been crying for the past week. Did I scare him off or something?