So our plans were not to find out babys gender until our daughters first birthday party. (it'll be my birthday too!) we were going to do a gender cake and have it decorated halloween since that's the theme of the party. the day before our scan my bf decided he wanted to know what it was, i kept play fighting him and saying he's usually the patient one and why did he want to know. I guess he got really curious in the end and I pleaded him not to find out because then I will want to know and itll ruin the suprise. well next day we go in and we decided that I wasn't going to find out because I wanted to be surprised. the tech asked us if we were finding the out the gender and my bf responded "Yes!" while I said No. we all laughed and my bf goes "well I would like to know but we're going to keep it a secret for her" not even 5 min later I'm looking at the screen and my mind went blank, i know what I was looking at but I didn't think he would show us so fast. he then says.."Its a boy! and that's his privates" my heart sank because I couldn't believe it was a boy! I look at my bf and he is sooo shock. it felt like my first pregnancy all over again. butterflies in my stomach and teary eyes! My bf has the same reaction and goes "nooo she wasn't suppose to know" our tech felt so bad his face looked like he just made the biggest mistake, he apologized I wasn't mad or anything my bf seemed alil upset but I told him it was our fault and probably confused the poor guy. No one knows til sat and I can't wait😂😂😂 we have a baby girl and I'm so happy with her, we don't have many babies on my side of my family let alone a boy so everyone will be overjoyed. my baby girl will have a brother 💙💙💙