I have 3 cats. One is 2.5 yrs old and the other are about a yr younger. Sometimes the older gets fussy with the younger ones but she’s never actually hurt them. My husband complains “she makes them cry.” First of all, they’re cats! They’re not people. None of them have ever hurt each other. No vet visit for injuries. No missing fur. No blood. No guts. Just some “cries” every now and then. So yesterday my husband called me while I was shopping to tell me he threw the older cat out and she can’t come back in. She’s a big baby. She’s 18 lbs of pure whimp. Next door are pit bulls. We have huge raccoons and opossums. When I got home yesterday she was hiding in the bushes crying. Little kitten meows. I picked her up and held her and she laid her head on me. She was wet and dirty and shaking. When I put her down, she cried to picked up again. When my husband came by she hid in the bushes again. She’s not an outdoor cat. So my husband pretty much sentenced her to death. My take is he’s heartless and ignorant. They never hurt each other. They just whined. And they’re CATS! Sorry I’m mad and I don’t even know what to do with this all. I posted this here because I hope that there will be a Godly perspective given. I’m sure if I posted anywhere else I would get “throw your husband outside”, “take the cats and run” , or “divorce”. And I don’t want those answers because all they are are overreactions and unbiblical. So married ladies: what is a wife to do when there is no way to see eye to eye? I’ve been praying. I haven’t really spoken to him. I don’t play the silent game, so I speak when necessary (bless you, excuse me, goodnight) but I have nothing to say otherwise. HELP!