Hi all! Like in the title head I don't even know where to start, so let's just dive in! My S.O and I recently have decided to try and start a family! (Yay!) I have always been the girl who wanted a big family and kids since I was a kid. So it was heartbreaking when earlier this year I was officially diagnosed with pcos after suffering with it for years and no answers And doctors just looking at me like 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏽‍♂️.

We have not been using any prevention method (thinking If it happens we wouldnt be upset) for going on 3 years now...

but now that we are actually trying.. I'm worried and stressing. What if my body won't do it? What if I can't provide this dream we've started to build?...

stress aside I went to my doc and she put me on metformin. My question is has anyone been successful on this med and if so how long did it take?

I've also been reading on clomid vs. femara and would love to hear anyone's opinions on either or both, I have a friend who is an OB nurse who highly recommends femara over clomid, due to clomid thinning the uterine line..

Any lifestyle/diet changes I should make?

Diving into this is scary, with so many articles and successes and losses (my heart hurts for all of the parents 😔) that I don't know where to turn or who to ask and even where to start. Any and all advice is welcomed, thanks ladies.