Hi ladies,

Hope you’re all doing well.

I need some sex help here!

I’ve been saving myself for marriage, and my wedding was on the 12th of October.

I’ve lost my virginity after 3 tries, and let me tell you it was painful.

And up until now, it’s still painful, he can’t get in, unless we’ve lubricated well, so here’s my first question, can someone please share their thoughts and tips with using a lubricant.

Second, why do I feel like I need to poop or pee when he’s in?

Third, when will it be pleasurable?