My husband is incredibly disassociated since we found out I was pregnant. He won't talk to me, he barely looks at me and it's breaking my heart. We agreed to actively TTC #4 and then I would get my tubes done. Well it happened and number 4 is extremely wanted and loved by only one parent. I'm only about 7 weeks but it's been shitty. He makes comments like "let's go get a drink" or "come smoke this bowl with me". I just have to keep reminding him I'm pregnant. like seriously, he never just "forgets" I'm pregnant. He also said he wants me to abort, but I CANNOT agree to that. I will not budge. He's a great dad, a great man and I love him tremendously. I just don't know what he wants. I tried to meet and give up what I wanted and talked about adoption, there's families that can't have babies and even though i love my baby, I would CONSIDER adoption. I can't bring up the baby or even Dr appointments. I'm the worse if I'm bitching about morning sickness and things like that. I just don't understand why he's shutting me down