like, at all, ever. how would you deal with your own emotions and dreams of having kids? What is the compromise here (if any). Okay, thanks everyone who was entirely not helpful in suggesting we go back in time and discuss before marriage 😂 But in all seriousness, we did discuss before marriage and we were both actually on the no-kid train. I was very forthcoming BEFORE the marriage as well when I changed my mind. I don't think I would be entirely unhappy not having children, but I also feel like a total guilt tripping hypocrite for changing my mind, and expecting him to, also.