New Mom!

Would any mom let their 2 week old or feel comfortable enough to let them stay at fathers house alone? I would like to know I’m not the only one who doesn’t feel comfortable. I’m currently breastfeeding and do not feel comfortable.

From the beginning our parenting “rules” were on the same page & agreed with what he thought was best for our son. Well now that he’s here and has a new girlfriend he’s flipping everything we agreed on and he doesn’t feel that he’s had any say to anything. He hasn’t helped with much JUST RECENTLY he has bought him a wipe warmer small essentials for umbilical cord and bottle warmer (so he feels that all of a sudden he’s daddy of the year lol). Baby was born very petite and was in need of newborn clothes because I prepared myself for a big baby buying 0-3m clothes (didn’t fit him). He has talked down on me and my choice for breastfeeding saying “he’s too skinny and I’m not producing enough milk” and said I should stick to formula because he’s “concerned”. HIS MOM SISTER AND DAD bought the baby clothes not him as a father asked or stepped up to get him anything. (He sees it as if someone else will get it why should I— he’s a guy who loves shit handed to him.)

Anyway thanksgivings coming up and he asked if he can take him for 2 hours then he’ll drop him off. I and just now.. all of a sudden “it’s not fair” that he can take him for only two hours. He’s threatening to take me to court. 🤷‍♀️👏 he can for all I care. I can be petty too, but every message he tells me I make idiotic decisions and I’m immature, blah blah blah. I can’t really talk to him it’s like talking to a wall.

I foreal dated and dealing with a female!!