I just got married last weekend, and our wedding night was the first time for both of us. I’m petite and his penis is pretty large, so it was wildly uncomfortable and I bled the first few times, even though he was gentle. We were able to have a few times where it was just uncomfortable not painful, but now I feel like I’ve torn at the entrance, so even trying for sex feels like clawing alcohol into a huge vagina paper cut. He is very considerate, and doesn’t want to hurt me, so that isn’t a problem. I’m just so frustrated that we’ve only been married for a week, and now we can’t have sex, and I just so badly want it to be normal and to enjoy sex with my husband whenever we want it. Has anyone had any experience with this? Any suggestions or a clue as to when it might be normal? We’ve tried lubricant, and that helped before the tear, so that will be a household staple.lol

We are new to this, but we are mature adults, who have waited so long for this. So please don’t judge, and any help will be greatly appreciated.:)