Why are we shaming unique names?

It seems like everyone wants to be the same!! Like if your name is not Emma, Sofia, or any other popular name, it just should not be used. Or if it is spelled a unique way because you know THERE ISN’T JUST ONE WAY TO SPELL A NAME!! Everyone freaks out. Also just because a name is unique and I’m sorry for saying this but “ white washed” doesn’t mean that child will have trouble. And all of these kindergarten teachers saying “ please don’t “ I’m sorry it’s just laziness because you don’t wanna take the time to ask or sound out a name. Doesn’t it get Tiring seeing the same name over and over again. I understand people love classic names and they want to stay “ traditional” but names just like anything else evolve and change over time into something new and thats ok. Also just because you haven’t heard of a name doesn’t mean it’s made up or “trashy” it just means it hasn’t got discovered yet. And so what if a parent wants to make their child special I would to because I wouldn’t want my kid to walk in a classroom and be called “ Madison H. Sofia J. Etc” i want my child to have their own identity and not just playing it safe for other people’s benefit. I’m not saying name your kid butthole, but I just say a beautiful name on this post and everyone seems to demean it because it’s new and they can’t pronounce it. Also the KID IS NOT GOING TO SUFFER IF THE CHILD HAS TO CORRECT PEOPLE! yes its annoying but it’s not the end of the world plus most likely when people get to know her/ him as a person they would grow to love their name and also love the fact that its different. I’m sorry about the rant but seriously the women on this post just amaze me. People always preach about “ being different is good” and “ Normal is boring” but when it comes to names we’re afraid to step out of our “ top 1000 box” and look for names that are genuinely unique and beautiful and when we do people freak out because again it’s new. But don’t shit all on a name just because it’s new, try to learn about it and if someone has a unique name and your not sure what it is just ask don’t be lazy and go straight to judging them or the parent because it just might be from another culture or she made it up for special reasons. All in all people need to stop bashing unique names.

* I just want to add when I said “ white washing” I didn’t mean it in a racist way I was just trying to state that majority of the names that are looked as “ normal” are names that are mostly used in white society and that’s just facts. Obviously not only whites people are hating on names but those are just the names that are known as “ traditional”.