My "friend" just told me that I'm a terrible wife. Why?

Because I don't:

* Cook his meals for him but every once in a while.

* I don't clean my house everyday, and yes, it's usually pretty messy.

* I don't pick up his shit when he comes home from work.

* I make him do his chores or I don't do mine.

So on and so forth.

No, I don't do any of those thing's because I work too. I also am starting my own business, so I will have 2 jobs. I come home tired as well. I also want to go back to school. The most important thing though, I don't have to! I'm not his mother! He is perfectly capable of doing all of that just as much as I am! She thinks just because she has a part time job and 2 kid's (I have none) and she can do it that I should do it too. 😂 I told her that I am not in her relationship and that she can do that stuff all she wants, but I don't have to and she got all kinds of pissed. Why do people have to shove their noses where they don't belong?