Third trimester 37 wks

Hi so im having I guess the regular aches and pains that come by 37 weeks. Everything just hurts. We dont have regular sex anymore maybe once or twice every two weeks. When we had last time i was pretty sore for a day. My husband claims that he will not initiate it since he doesn’t know when im feeling fine. I tried a couple of times to hint that im in the mood but he just didn’t take it. I feel so self conscious about my body thats its making me even more hormonal. I guess I just needed to vent or something. Im hoping everything will be back to normal after birth.