When a guy tells you what he want a you to do for him whether it's in a relationship or sexually and he finds like a meme or a picture of a guy having a girl do these things for him and sends it to you and says "I want this" is that not bothersome to you? Or would you prefer him to take what he wants from the picture and form a question and ask for what he wants rather than basically saying "she does it, why don't you?" like I get those aren't his intentions and it doesn't mean you're insecure if it's bothersome it's just...asking directly is a lot better to me