Both parents as well as society.

I think we don’t realize sometimes. My partner grew up in a very traditional home... short story is that his father expected dinner on the table and cheated on his wife several times but basically thought he should be able to do what he wanted... she always told her sons to never be like their father and always told them what to do differently... but I feel like even though my partner wants to be different than his father, sometimes without noticing he reverts to those ways...I think it takes a lot of hard work and fore-thought to break cycles like that. For example, I don’t think he knows how to be hands on with our daughter and I know he tries hard to be because he wants to be but it definitely doesn’t come natural to him.

Mostly from society, although there are plenty of women who undervalue themselves and make it acceptable for the world to undervalue women too. (Ex porn industry, strippers and so on) there is really so many unfortunately 😞

Depends. If they see their father devaluing women, they're going to think it's okay. If they see their mother allowing their father to devalue them, it's both parents. If they see a society accepting men devaluing women, they're gonna think it's okay. They learn the behavior somewhere and it needs to stop.

I think they originally learn from their parents... i've watched shows where men are assholes to women, and unfortunately have visited friends throughout my life where the dad was a complete asshole. My parents told me from very young that men and women are equal and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. It really stuck w me (and my sisters)

Our entire society tells kids that men deserve more respect than women. Have you watched kids shows on TV ever? In the 70s the man of the house was always talking shit to his wife and in 2017 it's always the woman that is made to look stupid, incapable and not deserving of respect. Kids learn this in the home, but it's reinforced by letting our kids watch this shit on TV and in video games. It doesn't matter how fair of a parent you are, if you aren't horrified by what's on TV and actively speak against it to your children, then you're okay with your kids learning that men deserve more respect than women.