Anyone else feel like their spouse is sucking any joy the mother feels out of her pregnancy? Its his first child and my 3rd, it’s not my first rodeo but he acts like I don’t know what I can and can’t do... I can still carry a laundry basket up and down the stairs, I can eat shrimp, I eat all day long snacking on this or on that so I’m not really hungry at dinner time, yet he treats me like I can’t do any of it, that if I do any of this it will hurt the baby... I keep trying to tell him to back off in a nice way because I know he worries and it’s his first but damn it’s not my first time!! I don’t think he realizes that I know my limits and it’s driving me crazy. I had been a completely single mom to my other two for the past 4 years (their father and I split up about 7 years ago and he was an active role in there lives until 4 going on 5 years ago) then my husband came into our lives about a year ago, I’m sorry for being so independent but I didn’t ever really have any other choice but to be independent. I think that it bothers him how independent I am and how much I don’t rely on him to do things for me I just do them if they need to be done no matter what it is, if take the trash to the end of the drive way or even out of the house he gets a little upset with me, but I’m not the kind of person that’s gonna sit around and wait for it to get done... sorry for the long rant