I work as a administrator of a small assisted living facility. I’m juggling home kid and work life which can be difficult when you have a 3.5 month old at home and on call all the time. Well I decided that I need to quit babying my staff and if they can’t handle their job they can grow up and try or they can leave. Well yesterday I was extremely sick and I didn’t want to be at work I had a new client moving in I asked my assistant to stay a little later to move him in and I would do all his paper work today. Well she agreed mind you she works 16 hours a week if that she makes her own schedule which I let her as long as she is at work so I can leave in time to get my son from his dad in time his dad can be to work. I work 40 hours on the floor then go home and work from home on care plans medication management plans and so on plus on call 24/7. Not complaining love my job but my assistant had the balls today to tell me I needed to go get on antidepressants cause my mood swings are out of this world. I asked my two to ten what was going on cause he is a good friend of my husbands and he said she was pissed I left her hanging yesterday and that I shouldn’t have even though I was extremely sick. So I guess my point is stay out of my personal life lady come on. She got mad when I had my son cause I didn’t want her to come to the hospital and hold my hand while they were inducing me I had my mom and husband there. Then I wouldn’t answer her texts on maternity leave other administrator was covering for me. But because I don’t hold her hand and Baby her through every damn thing she thinks I need antidepressants. I have severe anxiety and she makes it go through the roof I had been gone ten minutes one time to go to the bank and she was texting about one client was wearing slippers that make noise to annoy her. Also have had numerous complaints against her but when we take it to Human Resources she plays the card that she is disabled (mentally ill on medications) against her and blah blah so can’t do much. It’s to the point I want to quit my job cause everyone is on egg shell because of her and her bull shit. She had the nerve to text my husband (my secondary number) to tell me that I was severely depressed and she was afraid of me hurting myself or child. Sorry I had to vent about this