He broke up with me... 😠rant...
So my s/o, well ex broke up with me today because I got a surprise 3D ultrasound and he couldn't be there. This is our first baby and I understand why he was upset.. Because he couldn't be there because in in another state and he's back home but I tried my hardest to include him by skyping so he can watch and watch our daughter move and everything but he didn't want to stop what he was doing. My sister had made an appointment and paid before hand so I waited a little to see if he'd skype with me, but never did.. so we had to just do it. He called me saying he was moving out and we were over..
I'm 33 weeks pregnant and now have to do everything alone, I apologized to him for doing it so many times and tried to get him to take me back but nothing was working.. I just want him to be with me so we can raise our daughter and because I love him with all my heart, I've been hysterical all day because I want him back but have to remind myself that it's not good for the baby so i try my hardest to keep calm.. I don't understand what i did that was so wrong for him to break up our family, I'm now stuck with the house that I can't pay for myself, and all the bills while trying to stay calm for my daughter. Every time I try to talk to him it seems like everything gets worse, I don't know what to do anymore.. I'm at my breaking point. 😠I just want our family back to how it was...
My beautiful daughter. She's the only one that's keeping me going.
I need some type of advice or something to keep me sane..
Update: so we talked about everything and got back together once I came back home, but today I was told by a friend that he was pushing himself onto her and was trying to have sex.... but he was really drunk. I have only been back not even 24 hours and having to deal with this. I feel like if he can do that while we just break up then what would he do if we were together and he got drunk when I'm not home.... It's getting really hard to stay positive for my daughter when everything is going to crap... I don't know how much more bad news I can take.... I can't put my daughter through this either.... ugh so tired of this ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Edit to this ^ about a day or two before I come back home, he was being really nice.. and when he would talk his friends when he was on the phone with me he would act like we were still together, calling me babe and telling me he loves me. I didn't want to fight with him anymore so I didn't ask why he was being so nice of anything, just played it off like I didn't really care about what he said... Then I can home and the next day I have work... That's when I was told about him "pushing himself on her". I really didn't know what to think or say..
Update#2:
I get these...... while I was at work...
She screwed up on her text.. but when I talked to him about this he had nothing at all to say. Then that next morning he woke me up saying that we needed to talk about all of that.. He got really defensive and started yelling and screaming at me saying that it was a lie and that it's bullsh** that I believe them and not him.
But multiple people told me that they saw her car outside my house a lot....
He told me that she came over to get the stuff that I need her to get from my house. I knew what was there because she was one of my friends (and always said she wanted to be there for my daughter...) and I knew she was going over to get it but it was outside in totes and could just grab it and go, but no she went in my house knowing I'm not there and I don't like this one female in my house and he knew that; but still letting her inside. He said "she looked around a little and then said she was gonna leave it for a little while longer" and then left. So I don't know... haven't been stressing myself out, so it's been okay trying to deal with him till I can get the truth out. But it's been so hard to even look at him and not cry... Not gonna let this defeat me.!! My daughter deserves better then that.
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