so I was talking to my friend earlier who's 16 weeks pregnant and this happened. I honestly don't think she's mature enough for a baby but that's my opinion. she smokes weed all day long so it's copious amounts of it and she just doesn't want to take responsibility for what's happening. her water has been shut off because she doesn't pay her bills and I just don't know how to get through to her that what she's doing can be unsafe. I don't wanna be a bitch to her but it's getting bad she just got into a physical fight a week ago and keeps instigating fights. how can I try to help her?