So my brother runs the Darwin army right, but me and him aren't on great terms right now. My baby daddy has been trying to join and got on a 2 year wait because they said he wasn't emotionally able to join. So he appealed it and with my brothers help moved it down to one year. They said things like, our relationship was too new for him to join, and things about his past. I'm now pregnant, 22 weeks, and will be due the month after he's applying (I understand that he won't be around much) but is it better to tell the army we are just a happy couple or tell them I'm pregnant? They won't ask that. So should he bring it up? Would it make them deny him again as he has to be around??? Opinions please