Have any of y'all ever got to where y'all weren't as satisfied after sex with your SO? like you live the having sex with them but afterwards you don't feel as satisfied?

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I love sex with my my SO that I live with. we've been together for 5 months. and he currently is unemployed so when I'm not at work we spend all our time together. I think tthats part of my problem. but can you answer and comment back ways to fix this problem please and thank you!

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Married for 7 years.
I sometimes feel this way and will take care of myself afterwards to feel satisfied. It doesn’t happen often, typically when we don’t have sexy time for a while.
Or we spice it up in many ways and thus resulting in satisfaction.

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This happened with my college sweetheart. We communicated really well though and were able to spice it up and get back on track. However now I’m married and I haven’t had satisfying sex in years ☹️ husband isn’t great with suggestions and doesn’t seem interested in giving me pleasure. I still want him and want to have sex but I totally get what you’re saying, it’s not satisfying. The worse our connection is, the less satisfying it is. We are going to marriage counseling so hopefully that helps us. I hope you (and me) get some helpful suggestions!

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Definitely. I couldn't enjoy it. It got to the point where he would be pile driving me and id be thinking of what I wanted for dinner the next day. He would lack in the foreplay so I communicated with him and we found ways to make it better.

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Do you guys just go for it or do you use foreplay beforehand?

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also do y'all have any ideas on stuff to do to spice things up?

Have any of y'all ever got to where y'all weren't as satisfied after sex with your SO? like you live the having sex with them but afterwards you don't feel as satisfied?

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