Should we bother?

so my husband has great stamina.. sometimes too great.. he has a really hard time getting off at all. I on the other hand know my body very well and can power through to get off.. he's been so hard on himself and honestly I'm pretty frustrated myself because it's like how is a baby gonna happen if you can't come. I wish I knew how to fix it... I've tried touching, setting the mood,blow jobs, sexy talk, rubbing his Gooch and honestly I'm just so angry and ready to adopt a dog.. I know he's just as frustrated but I feel like I'm wanting something that I can't have.. anyone else ever experienced this