So my husband and I just got in a massive fight and I really am at my wits end. We have been married for two years and a few months and it has not been easy. We were fighting hard right up to the wedding trying to get the house finished before I moved in and money for the wedding stress I get it. But why has it not stopped. Tonight’s incident. It’s 1am I ask to please let’s go to bed. He says one more show I say sure it’s now 130 I ask to go to bed I’m not watching I’m going up. I ask that he put away the KD on the stove from his snack before he comes up please. All is civil and nice and he said ok. Fine. I ask him to come to be yup in a minute. He laid on the couch till 230 when I came downstairs after many other requests for him to please come up. I’m tired and I get woken up easily please come to bed so I can sleep without you coming later or worrying if you actually cane up or just slept on the couch. We don’t do that we don’t sleep in separate rooms And we don’t go to bed angry. Well I’m came down so mad after all this has been said and he’s still lying there. I said come to bed and that was it he freaked. Called me so f-ing annoying and screamed at me to leave him alone and go away. And I mean actually screamed. I hope the cops don’t come it was so loud my chest shook. Anyways after that I asked him what his problem was or if maybe he had too much to drink earlier st his buddies and it’s catching up or what and then he gets up throws the food in the pan in the fridge and storms upstairs telling me we won’t resolve this just get in bed and go to sleep. Well I’m sorry but after that I’m all tears and anger and I’m not fighting in bed at 3 am so now he’s in my wonderful bed sleeping away and I’m here on the couch sobbing. What is going on? I just had my period and I’m a couple weeks away from the next one. I don’t think this is hormones I think it’s straight problems. I don’t know.