relationship advice?

Deborah

So me & My boyfriend has been together for going on 3 years, & We were like best friends that was in love we use to talk about our future about how many kids we want to have, our wedding & what we will be wearing ,our careers,etc but now is so boring & different I hate it,it's like I lost my best friend and I noticed this happened when we moved together it's like his friends come first. I told him at the end of last year how I feel and thgat he needs to fix it but nothing has changed 😩 & We just had a son together in September 20th (I had a c section) and everything was hard for me because I was up taking care of our son by myself he was to tired when all he did was be with his friends. now it's hard for me to leave because I've always wanted to have my own little family (My dad wasn't in my life like that) I would never want that to happen to my son but he barley helps with him...i know when your a mom you never get a break but I've just been so depressed about everything i just want everything to go back to being normal between us....so what should I do....ir say to him because if I talk to him again and nothing changes I'm gone it will be hard but I will not beg nor sit around and not be happy smh what should I tell him because my feelings have low-key changed and I really don't see us together in the next few years I'm starting to not even care about us anymore ps he's 2221 and I'm