My S/O and I have been trying for the past year. (6 months of that was put on hold due to him deploying.) so then basically 6 months of actual trying. I have had 2 kids already so i know the "try without trying" drill, but now im kinda starting to worry and so is he. I feel bad because he's stressing out about not being able to have kids, wants to get tested but I think deep down he's too scared that the results will come back that he cant have kids. Has anyone else been through this? If so, what would be the best way to get over this hurdle?