baby self weaning??

Aly • 💞 mama bear to 💜Olivia 1/23/17 and 💙 Charlie 8/21/18

sooo everything on the internet really only talks about nursing babies but I want to know more about child led weaning as it pertains to EPers. I think my 10 month old daughter is starting to slowly wean herself! she was drinking an average of 22-27oz in October (and before that was a pretty steady 27-30oz average) . this month, she's only taken more than 20oz a couple of times (when her teeth were bothering her and she wouldn't eat as much solids) her new average is 16-20oz 😰

 Her routine is usually I offer 5 or more ounces before breakfast around 8am, and she'll only take about 4oz. then she eats half a banana or avocado, a strawberry, a little toast, maybe some egg. Sometimes she asks for milk before her first nap around 10:30 but usually only if she didn't eat very much and she'll still only drink 3-4oz. lunch is usually 12:30ish and she'll only drink 2-4oz (more if it's in a bottle instead of a sippy cup) and then she eats a bunch of pasta, egg, beans, cheese, steamed veggies, more fruit usually, sometimes a fish stick or leftover chicken. Then she gets a bottle around 2/2:30pm, again she usually only drinks 4.5oz even if I offer more (She had been drinking 5-6oz bottles last month)  then "dinner" around 4pm and she'll eat a ton again. Half an avocado or banana, some yogurt, cheerios, whatever she didn't eat for lunch. And lastly I offer a 5.5oz bottle around 5:30pm before bed but she's only been drinking 4oz tops.

Of course I worry that she's not getting enough, even though she does eat her solids like a champ. I've kind of pulled back on switching to the sippy cup too bc I want to be sure she's getting enough milk.. but she has 6 teeth already (and working on 7&8) so I'm torn about that too. I'm not too worried about weaning myself from the pump, I'm already down to 3 pumps per day and could easily drop the middle of the day pump if I didn't need those ounces.

When she's "done" weaning (and now) how much fluids should she be having per day to stay hydrated? She sips on water throughout the day sometimes but usually only has about 2oz water through the whole day. When she switches to whole milk (I know this is a little ways away) how much should she drink? Should it stay the same average (~20oz) of everything total?

Any advice or experience would be helpful!

picture for good measure 😉