I have been with my bf for 8 months and we are best friends as well. I love him so much he is such a sweet,caring and honest man. In his past relationships he got pretty hurt because his ex's cheated on him and lied to him all the time. Since day one I knew that and never lied to him and he never has lied to me. I trust him and I told him I would never hurt him like his ex's did. I told him he can look through my phone or anything and he won't find any secrets from him because I love him. He believes me and I believe he would never hurt me. Today randomly he said he wanted me to see his phone and see a message from a girl coworker just so I know he isn't lying or doing anything behind my back. I'm not worried because he has been honest with me about everything. I told him that I appreciate him showing me the messages.