My sos and have been together for a yr and have been ttc for about 10months now. I said I don't want to get married till after I have a baby due to my better health insurance witch I would loss is I get married. I want to get married don't get me wrong I really do. I don't want to push him since he was married before. he has also of friends that have been in relationship for years with no marriage in sight. I want to get engaged and at least enjoy that for a long while. am I asking to much? opinions please.