i have asked my mom 2 times if she would watch my boys when i go into labor she wants me to ask my 20 yr old brother who has no vehicle and is always staying with someone because he has no place so sometimes he is hours away but she wants me to ask him because she wants to be in delivery room and she says i don't understand😮 so looks like my husband will be with the kids and i will be in delivery room on my own she is not welcome in the room if she can't help me. update: my little sister lost her job and has offered to watch my kids for me while i deliver and i have decided to tell my mom that she can see the baby after i have a day with her i know shes going to call me every name in the book but i am tired of her telling me i don't understand and not helping me but expecting me to do everything forHer