We just decided to start trying we aren’t letting anyone know all are friends and family want us to wait but we were so excited for our second baby that when we lost it we both lost part of our selves and it hurt our marriage but things are better and it was my husbands idea he wanted to try it’s been almost 2 months since we lost our baby at 8 weeks our baby stopped growing at 5 I️ am so scared I️ am going to lose this next one when ever we get pregnant I️ feel like it will break us we have one daughter already and she is what kept us together fingers crossed and good luck to all of you who are trying