Is he doing more?

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Recently I found out my hubby has a thing for anonymous sex... like he goes on chat rooms online and subscribes to sex stuff and videos and sends pictures etc. Is this as far as this type of thing goes usually? Or do people who have these type of fetishes usually meet up and physically cheat too? I'd rather hear from people who are familiar with this type of thing than judgement. Js.

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I’d say for me personally just finding that out would be too much. ✋🏻
If he’s sending photos, that is in my eyes cheating.

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That’s not a fetish lol. That’s just cheating.

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I'm not sure that he's doing more, but that alone would make me break up with him. It's cheating. End of story.

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I think you need to have a conversation with him about it. If you are comfortable with him sending pics and stuff that's fine, but you need to communicate with him where you draw the line. I can see how it could develop into him wanting actual sex with a stranger. If you discuss what is acceptable in your relationship then he should be able to respect that.

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Thats emotionally cheating even if he isn’t meeting up with these people. Usually id say curiosity gets the better after a while if he hasn’t physically cheated that doesn’t mean he won’t in the future. 
I certainly don’t class this as a fetish

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No matter what, you both need to be absolutely, 100% comfortable with it. If you’re not, you need to have a talk with him. Just be honest about your concerns, and expect him to be honest about his choices as well.

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I say that is enough. 
He may or may not be doing something physically but mentally it’s all there. He already fantasying about another woman while he has you there. You deserve more respect and someone who’s gonna honor you 100% of the time. There shouldn’t be a need for him to seek anonymous sex.

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Well idk about you, but that would be considered physically cheating to me. Doesn’t matter if they aren’t literally in the same room. He’s still doing sexual stuff with a person other than you.. so cheating. Time to take out the trash!

Is he doing more?

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