I'm confused because I fantasize about guys when pleasing myself, but all the guys are gross to me in real life. There's a couple girls I could see myself dating because we click and if they were guys I'd date them on the spot. I always tell myself to be open to a relationship with anyone and not to put myself in a label. I could see myself with a girl sexually, but is it really the girl I want or just their personality traits I'm looking for in a man?