Boyfriends alcoholic dad

Hey ladies! Do I just need to vent/ need advice!

My boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this week and we're each 23. I've moved out and he lives at home because his college messed up his credits!

His dad is a major asshole and honestly makes it seem like he hates him. He drinks all the time when not at work and just make his life a living hell.

It started with his dad demanding money weekly (which understandable!) so he paid his dad within 48 hours. When he paid his dad, his dad flipped out on him and took away his car. So now I have to drive an hour there to pick him up and an hour back. Last week his dad had another outburst on Monday and bailed on Thanksgiving that was being held at my house and my family was coming from out of state for! (But his dad couldn't make it because his hissy fit was more important)

Then I drove my bf back home on Monday and his dad flipped out again because I didn't come in and say hi to him and I shouldn't be upset about thanksgiving! Also I had my dog who doesn't get along with their dog, so I was trying not to cause a scene.

On Tuesday after work his dad freaked out again and said that we're not allowed to see each other at all until he finds a second job! Let's keep in mind he's already working kne job and is trying to find a full time job in his major!

He can't move in with me because he'll completely lose his car, his job is an hour away, rents too expensive and his parents made the executive decision to start paying off his loans so he doesn't get the 6 month grace period!

I am just so beyond made because I got us tickets to a bruins game for next week and those were $450! I can't afford to lose that money after the grand I've lost because of his father the past few months!

Not to mention we have had so many ups and downs in our relationship that this anniversary was supposed to be huge for us!

I guess I just don't know what to do if anyone has any advice or has ever gone through this! I'd appreciate the support and help!