When do you know to leave?

I feel like I don’t have any big red flags in my relationship.. he’s never cheated, never been abusive, but lately I can’t help but feel like I should leave.

We have more good times than bad, but when it’s bad it’s like I can’t get over it. I get so upset and I feel like it’s to much.

We have been together for 3 years and have a 2 year old. We have one vehicle and he works full time. And I’m a stay at home wife.

When we argue he tells me to get a job.. I have no possible way to get to a job, let alone a babysitter. But when he says it, it’s like he regrets it so much that I don’t bring in any money.

He tells me I don’t do anything, but I do everything that includes housework and raising our child.

When I mention maybe we need a break to cool down.. he tells me to leave because it’s “his house”

I got depressed from sitting in the house all day. It gets old, and he gets upset if I act too upset about it. Says he gets tired of hearing it..

And the worst thing is when we fight, he will leave the room and come back and be like “are you my baby” or “are you my friend” and if I don’t act happy it just starts another huge fight because I won’t get over anything..

I feel like maybe I am over thinking it, I know relationships are a lot of work but I also feel like it isn’t normal?