Staying sane

Hi! I’m new here and not gonna lie, I’m a bit overwhelmed. Such a huge community I didn’t know existed!

It may be an utterly stupid question for many of you - but how do you keep your mind in check while tracking everything and not go overboard with thinking every little symptom means you’re pregnant?

My biggest fear is that I will become completely obsessed because I want it so badly for me and my husband... so much that it will prevent it from happening. And let’s face it - I’m not getting any younger! (31)

This will be our first cycle of actively trying to get the fertile window right. But I keep telling myself that I know it will take a long time, and I’m talking myself into being rational. Also this turned out to be a rant filled post, which wasn’t my intention so I’m just gonna stop myself and hope that maybe one of you lovely ladies can share with me how you manage to stay sane and calm while your mind and body is over analyzing and cheering on the inside constantly.