So it is common knowledge that men can’t deal with feeling even slightly sick (yes i know there are exceptions ;)) and my bf is a perfect example for that. Now usually I’m able to deal with it but its getting ridiculous. He’s in between jobs right now and the free time seems to enable him in this behavior.

Today he spent 3 hours in the ER just so the doctor could tell him he was suffering from heartburn after eating too much for lunch. Problem is I feel like he wants to be sick. Sometimes he doesn’t eat or drink for a whole day and then complains about feeling sick at night. It’s like he’s doing it on purpose to get my attention. Meanwhile I’m 19 weeks pregnant with a broken toe and can’t seem to get any kind of help doing the day to day things even tho he has nothing but free time. I’m not someone to complain easily but my foot hurts and being pregnant is not always easy and I kinda expected some kind of help. But when I tell him that I’m in pain he just tells me how much more in pain HE is.

Does anyone have some ideas how to fix that? Anyone have similar experiences? Also just needed to rant cause wtf why are men such babies 😒😒