Is the grass always greener on the other side

I never understood that question till the other day now I get it people judge another family or wish they had what the happy put together family has when at the end of the day the oh so happy family isn’t so happy u have the mom who smiles and is “happy” with her life and the dad who loves his happy wife when in reality the wife’s unhappy because she’s always trying to make her husband happy and the kids happy and forgets to make herself happy and then u have the husband who sits there and doesn’t even appreciate his wife and treats her like crap and makes her feel even more like crap because she didn’t pick up or she isn’t feeling good but still does the house work dam I hate the life I live but that comes with having a family a house 2 cars a husband that works and is the bread winner while I make crap for money I guess I gotta suck it up because at the end of the day I have nothing if I leave I’m on the streets and he’s got a house I don’t have a phone or a car I miss the simple things in life sorry this post is so long just kinda had to vent since I ain’t got friends