Opinions

So my spouse and i are having our 3rd baby 👶🏻 I’m due the 2nd week of January. And He is asking to go out of state for an event on Jan 20th, with a friend of his. I totally trust him. But i don’t even know if our baby will be here. Or if he is born on time, if i should be okay with him leaving a week after our son is born. It’s only for one day but we live in Texas and he’s wanting to go to New York. If i wasn’t pregnant I’d probably just say No. or tag along. Help with opinions. I know we are all different ages on the group that’s why I’m asking here.