Vagina Tips Please! Hair removal, Products that keep you fresh?

Ok so my man does not do oral , he has a strong sense of smell and is grossed out of the thought. Which I really can't blame him because I discharge a lot and my vagina has a really hard time staying fresh for some reason. I've stopped douching for health reasons. What are some products you use down there to keep it fresh ? And how can I slowly ease him into wanting to go down ? And how do you ladies prefer to remove your hair ?