has anyone else noticed this??

Question

I get very different reactions when I say "I've been diagnosed with depression " versus when I say "I have depression". When i say I've been diagnosed, the reaction is generally very supportive or sympathetic. When I say I have it, the usual response is something like "are you sure? you don't look like it."   anyone else notice this?

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It happens a lot in the current day and age where people self diagnose themselves with anxiety/depression/mood disorders. 
I personally think you should get a proper diagnosis from a medical professional before definitively saying you have ANY sort of medical issue. You dont just feel dizzy from not eating and say “im definitely diabetic”. Saying “i think im depressed” or “suspect i have an immune system issue” are preferable to me.
If we want people to take mental health as serious as physical health I think we should hold them to the same standards when diagnosing.

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I think it's because so many people just throw around the word "depression" like it's not a serious mental health condition. I've gone through the same thing, when I talk about it I always make sure to bring up being diagnosed so it doesnt stir up any irritating and ignorant questions. I also thing my age has something to do with it, being I'm so young and lots of people seem to think that young people can't get depressed for some reason.

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people are so ignorant. I've had people tell ask me if I'm sure I needs meds for my depression. Like wtf!?! So it's better that I'm a freaking mess ready to break at any minute, feeling anxious every time my kids leave with their dad, constantly wondering if I'm thinking clearly, feeling deep sadness, and not wanting to do any of the things I used to do that brought me joy? No, thanks. I'll take my meds so I can function properly.

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It happens a lot they stereotype it

has anyone else noticed this??

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