Really struggling emotionally 😒

Married to a wonderful trans woman, but we’re currently TTC and I’m so desperate to get pregnant, but our sex life is very complicated due to wife’s dysphoria. I love her dearly and don’t want to pressure her but we’ve been trying to get pregnant for a couple years now and I’m afraid her fertility is slowly disappearing due to hormones. I don’t know how to handle my emotional turmoil over my negative preggo tests and the frustration I feel with our sex life.... anyone else dealing with these issues?