Needing advice.

Well how do I begin. Sometimes I feel like my SO doesn’t care. If I cry, I don’t get a hug. I just been getting the cold shoulder. He says it’s because of work, but ladies I’m heartbroken. Does love actually die down after some years? Is love suppose to be a feeling i feel constantly or does life happen? I love him, but I just wish he would ask me how I’m feeling. He’s never serious. We can’t ever create realistic goals together. This just isn’t my husband. I keep asking if anything is wrong, but no it’s not. Ladies, what should I do? I’m speaking to married woman, who have been in a long relationship. I just wish we communicate better. I’m crying as I write this but he doesn’t even care to come and check on me.