And girls are difficult?!?

Okay so about 2 weeks ago me and my bf of 10 months split up. It was absolutely heartbreaking for me and it seemed to be for him too. Well the whole 2 weeks he was texting me, calling, snapchatting. He works out of state and he hasn’t been home since. Well this weekend is his first weekend home being single. So he says he wants to hangout and talk about everything. While he was on his way home I asked him when would he want to hangout or whatever and his response was “god damn, I just got home.” So okay I left it at that, and told him Sunday was okay with me and if he wasn’t busy we could do it then. This morning he tells me good morning and doesn’t respond to any other messages I sent him. I just asked him if he still wanted to talk tomorrow or not, and nothing, didn’t even answer me. And then he goes and post videos of him being at the strip club. Which that doesn’t bother me, but what does bother me is that he’s the one that wanted to hangout and talk, and now that he’s home he wants nothing to do with me. I know for a fact that he had girls lined up to “hangout” with this weekend. Girls that he talked to throughout our relationship. But every time I mention something about them he calls me crazy and lies about it. Do I just wait for him to tell me he’s ready to talk or do I just say fuck him and be done with it?