Would you tell your SO?

Question

Would you tell your SO their sibling made sexual advances towards you? 
Example: You’re all adults. Pretend while you were engaged, his adopted brother (a friend adopted from Highschool) would lean on you and put his hands in your lap between your legs while you two sat in the back seat and your SO was driving a full car. Would you tell them?

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I would remove his hands and bend his fingers backward. My boyfriend wouldn’t need to step in cause I’d take care of it but yes I would tell him.

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I did. it was my husband best friend who was like a brother. My husband had moved up to canada for almost 6 months before I came up with our daughter to join him. I was at his parents house for thanksgiving and his friend started making advances towards me where I was very uncomfortable near him (yes I said something to him which he ignored). I told my husband and he confronted him over the phone about it and his friends response was I was no longer of limits because we were in different countries or time zones (something like that)! needless to say my husband hasn't spoken to him since.

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I definitely would!! That's not okay with me! And anyone who really knows me, knows that that's not okay! Now, I've been flirted with, and all that jazz, but I don't get as worked up about it when it comes from someone I don't even know so I don't really think anything of it, because they don't really know me, or my husband but to be sexually propositioned by a family member, or someone who's close to us, would send me reeling. I dare, someone from my Husband's family, to come on to me like that, because I would probably beat the living snot out of them! And I wouldn't be upset because they came onto me, persay. I'd be pissed that they didn't have enough respect for my Husband to keep their mouth shut, and their thoughts and their hands to themselves, if applicable, and that they would do something so disrespectful towards my husband because that man is a good man! He is kind and loving, extremely loyal, and dedicated to his family. He's worked extremely hard and he is generous, and so many other good and wonderful things. That's just to name a few, which is why he deserves the utmost respect from his family and friends. My husband is not the type of person that anyone in their right mind would ever want to disrespect like that. He is the type of man who fully deserves the utmost respect in my book, and he does so without demanding, or expecting it because he's very humble by nature, which is exactly why he has earned and deserves the utmost respect from me and his family and friends, and as his wife, I wouldn't put up with that kind of behavior, and I damn sure wouldn't lie to cover it up, just to protect someone, because I'd have absolutely no more respect for anyone who ever tried to cross that line. We both would be done with anyone who tried. And that in itself would be punishment enough.

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