to test or not to test, that is the question

Been waiting for today for a while. 2 weeks to be exact. Lol. Today is the day AF is expected to come. I tested on 8, 9 and 11 DPO all resulting in BFN. I don't really have any symptoms of pregnancy or AF coming. My boobs are normally super tender before my period, don't even want to take your bra off tender, and they feel just fine. Only thing I notice is I feel more wet down there, and go to the bathroom thinking I'm starting but I haven't. I have an urge to test but don't want to feel the disappointment of a negative test. We only BD once during my fertile window and it was only the 2nd day of the window. Anxious for her to show up so I can look forward to the next round of trying and going to start charting more and using Preseed. So now I have to decide if I want to try to test or wait a couple days to see if she shows. Decisions, decisions.