Which is more acceptable to “unwind” when baby is asleep / away?

I feel that alcohol is “more accepted” among society. A glass of wine with dinner, a glass of wine once the babies are in bed. Brunch with mimosas, a martini while out with friends..

..However it seems like smoking/vaping weed or eating edibles is considered to equate bad parenting or irresponsible.

Just curious what other moms think.

*NEITHER ARE OK IF YOU BED SHARE!!**

(Nobody is a perfect parent - if you are unable to accept that other people think and feel differently from you AND ACCEPT THAT THATS OKAY, please do not participate here. This is a safe environment for all to talk!)

Also for the sake of discussion, let’s assume marijuana is legal in the state in question :)

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